There it goes again~~

Congratz to FC Barca for the win!

Pedro, Messi and D.Villa...great scores tonite!!

WooHhoooOO~~~~

SHUT UP BIATCHH!!!

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Understanding the opposite sex! [Part 3]

DIFFERENT EMOTIONAL NEEDS.

men and women have different emotional needs.
mistake: men typically give in relationship what men want, while women give what women want.

MEN primarily needs:

• trust
• acceptance
• appreciation
•  admiration
• approval
• encouragement

WOMEN primarily need:

• caring
• understanding
• respect
• devotion
• validation
• reassurance

when a man can listen to a woman’s feeling without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift! he makes it safe for her to express herself. the more she is able to express herself, the she feels heard and understood and the more she is able to give a man the loving he needs.

just as men need to learn the art of listening to fulfill a woman’s primary love needs, women need to learn the art of empowerment. when a woman enlist the support of a man, she empowers him to be all that he can be. the secret of empowering a man is never try to change him or improve him. a man needs to be accepted regardless of his imperfections.  for a man, to improve himself, he need to feel loved in an accepting way. he needs to feel accepted just the way he is, and then he, on his own will look for ways to improve himself.

MEN are from mars, WOMEN are from venus by John Gray.

p/s: Click here for the second part of Understanding the opposite sex!

Understanding the opposite sex! [Part 2]

MEN ARE LIKE RUBBER BANDS

there are times when a men pulling away after they have been very romantic, lovely and nice. this is because man needs to pull away before he can come closer. when they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. when man gets too close he will automatically pulls away. this is their nature cycle!

note for women:

1. when man pull away, don’t try to get close, he will distance even more.
2. when man pull away, it is not the right time to ask for them to listen to you.
3. when man pull away, don’t try to say ‘Let’s talk’.
4. when man pull away, don’t ask them why they suddenly change their behavior. 

man just need some space and need to be alone. they feel like they have give and receive too much. so they just need time to miss you. but don’t worry! when the rubber band is fully stretched there is no where left to go but back and when it returns it has a lot of power! more love!

extra note —>  if a man does not have the opportunity to pull away, he never gets chance to feed his desire to be close. if he’s back, he feels that he can’t live without her.

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WOMEN ARE LIKE WAVES

a woman is like a wave. when she feels loved, her self-esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. when she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. when a woman’s wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love. 

note for men —> this crash is temporary. after she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift and she will again feel good about herself. automatically her wave begins to rise back up.

1. when the wave falls, don’t try to fix them! *serious* when you are fixing her, you are preventing her from feeling better.
2. when the wave falls, man needs to learn that this is the time she needs him the most. try to support her with unconditional love.
3. when the wave falls, don’t make mistake by trying to prevent her from “going down”. man needs to learn that woman needs to hit the bottom before she could come up.
4. when the wave falls, the last thing a woman needs is someone telling her why she shouldn’t be down. she needs someone to be with as she goes down to listen to her and to empathize with what she’s going through.

my conclusion from:

MEN are from mars, WOMEN are from venus by John Gray.


p/s: Click here for the first part of Understanding the opposite sex!

Shootoooo~

Asal aku bleh tersuke kat dia?
*sigh*
punye la ramai lagi manusia kat muke bumi ni..
tapi ...kenape kat dier gak?
aaahhh..i hate it...
Hurmmm...

*siggggghhhhhhhh*

*sigh*

Skang da kul 12:14am..hari khamis 12th May 2011...

Im not myself anymore...
I can feel myself dying..bit by bit..
day by day...
and year by year...

It has been almost 4years since that story end...
The story that will not be continue...
the story that end on Oct 2007...

Since that day...
I kept on trying to write a new story...
but always end up half way..
or right before it start...

TIRED...
only that I can say...for now..
but what I feel in my heart rite now...
none of the words in human language can describe it...
*sigh*

ahhh..I hope I can get away..
to some place...that no one know about me...
to start over my life...

fml...

*sigh*

Falling in L?

Am I???
Really?
is it for real now?
or just another illusion of my own mind?

*sigh*
Not good for my health...especially my emotion or mental..

Hurmm...
But I want to know her...
who is she?
what's she like?
what's she dislike?
I want to know about her life...
her family...

I hate myself coz falling in L again...
*sigh*

but...
I'm starting to miss her...
especially her smile...
and the way she look and stare...
sh*t!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(


why this happpppennnn!!!
FML!!!

*sigh*

&@)&*@)&)&*^%!@&@!(@(+#*(&%(&#($_@#*_#&*%*&#^@&#

ohh..lupe nk ckp...


F***!!!
Trip ke Pulau Perhentian yg da cukup lama aku tunggu...
da cukup lama aku excited...
last last...

CANCEL!!!!

FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCK!!!!!!!!

Ermmm...
nape mesti berminat kat org yg tak sepatutnye???
this is bullshit u know? :-s
kan da susah da...
aduhaiii...
Menjadi masalah....sbb aku tatau ape2 pon pasal dia...
just her name...that's all...
aku nk kenal dia..aku nk tau pasal dia..even dpt bercakap dgn dia pon da cukup..
arghh...again..
this is bullshit!
Whyyy whyy!!!

F to the U to the C to the K to the U to the P..
damnn!
-.-"

It's already May...

Another month has come to past...

and i'm waiting for this month to end...

For the new month to come forth..

Yet..

I'm still the same..

For the past few years...

Nothing change..

Nothing new...

Nothing for Heaven's sake.

Should I just ended this life of mine?

Or waiting for the miracle to happen...

which that's not gonna happen...

even in the slightest chance...

Should I just ended this life of mine?

and be gone from this cruel world of mine...

Reality is sick...

Reality is suck...

Reality is pain...

and reality is really hard to be accept...

by me or others...

Should I just ended this life of mine?

or...

just keep walking for the Heaven's sake...

-Imran Yusof-